At work, there's always a high performer who becomes the go-to problem solver. With their strong work ethic, they will happily go beyond their job scope and take on problems outside their control to ensure positive outcomes for the company. But this is where things start to get ugly. They find themselves constantly fixing last-minute crises, stepping in where others wonโt, and carrying a weight thatโs not fully theirs. Over time, it leads to high stress and exhaustion. Sound familiar? If your heart is silently screaming "YES"๐๐ป, then this article is for you. Let's explore how to shift from a very stressful "fixer" to a leader who empowers others and avoids burnout.
pausing and thinking, active inactions
Thinking and contemplating are forms of active inaction. These are purposeful pauses to process, reflect, and plan. I know, in today's hustle culture, contemplating sounds unproductive. But when done right, it brings us clarity and time, to learn and strategise effectively.
Isabel Mind Mine Newsletter – slow down; to be, without being in a rush
I am quite good at rushingโat doing things in a high-intensity, high-pressure way.ย But, Iโm better off when I remember to take my time, to realize that the journey is long and it should be treated with patience. This is the muscle I have spent the last two years or so cultivating:ย the ability to be, without being in a rush. Because I want to be ready for the sprints to come, but I donโt want to be someone who goes out of my way to find them, who seeks out the rush just to feel normal. I want to remember that going slower isnโt worse; and sometimes itโs the only way to build the strength we need to go fast.
Steering Dreams Toward Reality: A Roadmap to Resilience and Success
"What pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for?" Mark Manson poses these compelling questions in his article, prompting us to explore our core values. Understanding these values is not just insightful; it's a crucial driver of true success. Drawing from Manson's wisdom, I delve into how our most profound principles determine the challenges we embrace with passion and guide us towards our achievements. Come along as we uncover the strength of syncing our life's dreams with these intrinsic values, turning our ambitions into a journey marked by resilience and fulfilling pursuits. On the brink of 2024, let's set out to make our dreams tangible, step by step. Learn how to mold a future that not only aligns with your passions but also brings them to life.
Kickstart My Morning: Discovering Early Clarity
Lately, things have felt chaotic, and my goal is to bring some order to that chaos. So I've decided to embark on the journey of daily journaling, starting with this morning. I envision myself conquering those long-overdue tasks by the day's end. Bismillah - with Allah's strength, I'm ready to take on the day!